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Fri 22 Oct, 2004 04:58 pm
theirs this guy who ive seen around school whose in my grade.hes really hott and i wanna get him to notice me.he hangs out with some of my friends.i want to get him to know me but its weird just going up to someone u dont know and talking to them.we've both looked at eachother and stuff and i want him to talk 2 me.i need help!
When this guy is around and your friends are present, join in the conversation and direct a question/response to him. Don't be shy, I'm sure he's as shy as you are:)
flash the norks it used to get my attention.......
seriously just go up to him and tell him..we dont bite!
ukman wrote:seriously just go up to him and tell him..we dont bite!
What - even if you barely know the guy?
(I'm saying this because there's a guy I like - thread relating to this further down the page - and people have been telling me to tell him, and others have been saying don't bother because you don't know him - I'm confused!).
Yes, absinthe, just go up and talk to him. Like Misti says, direct a question to him, respond to him, and keep paying attention, so he knows your interest is in him, not the conversation.
Or be fun. Like, go up and hold his hands, while he's talking to some guys, and say "Are you going to introduce me to your friends, honey?"
That's the sort of thing I used to do, and it works really well. Think about it, it's not like he'd get offended.
Great recommendation! SCotes used to do that sort of thing.
get in their ....I love it when girls crack on to to me.
as a pretty shy guy, and as someone who isnt really agressive and waited for the girl to come to him, im telling you he will not think its weird if you go up to him and just talk. Guys love it when they get the attention of girls...just dont come on too strong or ask him alot of questions just kinda have chit chat, nothing too personal but stuff like "what teachers do you have", make fun of other teachers stuff like that
so - is this the same guy as 'is he sending signals'?
you seem young so I will withold all the sure fire advice out of a sense of decency..........man....I can't believe I said that.....
You know how to get a guy to notice you? Allow him to believe you're not interested in him ... works every time!
misti26 is stupid. girls dont listen to her.
Hello. i am a guy from toronto. and i am currently 16. and i would like to say not to pretend you arent interested in em. i ususally give up on those type of girls becasue i invision them as being snotty or spoiled. we do not wnat to decide what to talk about all the time. girls gotta talk more make us feel confident. girls dont act like pleading to be with him head of heels. you gotta let em knwo you want em but not too much. but if not enoug they wont even try to bother. dances or thigns like that. take them. no matter if ur ugly or not guys wont say no. especially if you know you look good. dont ask them. jsut grab there hand and pull em out on the dance floor. that is what makes us happy. well good luck girls!