@decordecor,
You have way too much invested in a girl you haven't even kissed. And hanging your hopes on a girl who came out of such a relationship is unhealthy for you.
If you find yourself feeling too needy, consider spending more time developing your sense of self / who you are.
She likes you, though whether or not there could be more can only be guessed. No one who cancels, offers an alternative date if they don't truly like the person...but again, in what way she truly likes you can only be guessed at.
Hang out with her, see what happens. But I'd keep your options open until you know something is developing.
Hope it helps some