He has alot of "psycho exes"?

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I started dating this guy. I have a bad history with dating. I just seem to always fall for the players and jerks..

I met this guy who Ive been seeing for over a month now and things seem to be going good. My goal is to settle down with a guy and that seems to be in his plans too. He seems like he genuinely cares about me. It's just...different from what I'm used to. Feels like a breath of fresh air in a way. He has a a young daughter, and I have a young son. Our kids already get along well.

One thing rung a bell though. I recently went looking through his facebook pictures (like Im sure many people do when they start dating somebody new) and I was just looking at pictures of him from over the years... Well I saw that he posted in May 2016 a picture of spray-paint on his car and he wrote "Here we have yet another psycho ex to add to my laundry list of them. God only knows why I attract them"

Should I take this as a red flag?

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@stephaniefinley,

same answer as I gave on the same question you asked earlier

stephaniefinley wrote:

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I met this guy who Ive been seeing for over a month now and things seem to be going good.

He has a a young daughter, and I have a young son. Our kids already get along well.

stop right here

you've been dating for a month (or a bit more)

do not introduce your child to someone while you are still in the casual/honeymoon stage of dating

that is not fair to your child

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Continue dating casually. Do not think about the long-term at this point. It is far too soon.

Are you going to talk to him about that photo? if you can't talk to him about it, you're not ready to go further with the relationship. Communicate - in person - and keep your child out of it.

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You say you always attracted bad guys in the past.

Why aren't you allowing him to say the same thing about his past?

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@stephaniefinley,

I have some crazy ex's, it's not his fault for him being so good and them being so awful and not realizing what they lost until it was gone.

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He has alot of "psycho exes"?

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