Opinions on Porn???

I find it ok.

I love it...video Viagra.

Nancy is a beneficiary of it...not a victim.

And perhaps that is the way you should conceive of it.

For the record...damn near every live human male loves it. It is most assuredly not a reflection on the woman or women in their lives.

I dont watch it all the time but everyne once in a while I get an itch to see some freaky stuff.

The anime porn is a little different that stuff just cracks me up. Porn isn't bad as long as its done in moderation. Also no woman should not feel unwanted. Guys like to see dirtier things that you might not let us do to you. Or things we wouldnt want to do to our loved one but still like to see it.

No reason why you can't participate either. Sex is suposed to be between 2. Lets say you had a fetish for feet or back rubs. Not quite as exciting for us but if it makes you happy why not. But sometimes the things that might make a guy happy sexually a woman scorns at. So its a give and take. You want back rubs I want BJ's, You want foot messages I want you to dress up and talk dirty and spank me I think you get the picture.

Usualy in a relationship one person is selfish sexually. Always more concerned about there orgasm or there needs then the other person. THATS BAD. You should want to make your mate happy within reason.

If someone watches porn everyday I would say there is an issue but nothing is really bad in moderation.

This is MY view.

I have only dated other Christians who agreed that it was bad to watch it, even as a "couple." It brings unnecessary images and added thoughts that most likely won't be of your partner. That's one of the joys about only having that special partner ---- from what we believe.

I do not argue with men (the opposite sex) if they enjoy porn and see nothing wrong with occasionally viewing it. That's their choice and I would never get mad at them if I caught them and hypothetically, we were dating. ...but this is always something I know about before we start dating.

With that said, most of the guys I've dated have faced a problem some time in their life with a porn addiction. It's there, it's convenient, and it's hard to resist. However, those men readily admitted to it and asked for help by either actually getting help (yes, I do know people who got counseling), ask for accountability, or just didn't venture on boards that posted it (which made them explore it more when they felt their ding dong tingle for more). They did NOT want to have this problem (for them, it became an obsession). ...was a personal choice. No "girl" made them think it was wrong.

That's my view. Only emphasizing this b/c I know from reading many threads (as you have), most people here disagree.

its fine by me...
.
i watch porn, i have almost 2 gig of porn on my PC
if a woman im dating has a problem with porn, she goes, i stay...

there are 3,000 million women plus on this planet
i wont waste a minute with one that isnt 100per cent ok with how i am...
im with frank on this one, 99% of the guys i know watch porn and would never give it up for anyone...

porns the only naked female i see now lol


you cant beat a good bit of bondage .

Regarding porn? Live and let live, to thine own self be true and to each his own.

Be careful if he's looking at stuff like this though.

Porn is okay. I don't spend a great deal of my time looking, but, once in a while ...

Ohhhh, Lordy!!! You stunned me on that one!

SSweet...been a ton of porn threads here...the general concensus is that porn's not bad but hiding an addiction is.

I pretend he's getting away with something...
My hubby looks at porn on the computer a couple or 3 times a week. He still makes love to me about that often too. He's 56, I'm 52.

He does clear out the browser's history when he's done, bless his little heart he thinks he is covering his tracks! He still hasn't figured out that:
1. if you only clear the history certain times, it calls attention to those times, and

2. if you clear the history you might as well clear the cookies and cache, too.

Ok, so I don't especially like that he does it I'm not going to be able to stop it, and it's by far not the worst thing he's ever done to this marriage. So I never mention that I know what he's doing, but I do mess with his mind a little. After noticing what he's looked at the last time, I'll suggest we do THAT in our next lovemaking session. I wonder if he will ever get it, haw haw. But really, it almost always involves a blow job, which I enjoy anyway.

He's so stubborn, if he knew I wanted him to stop, he would do it more, just to show me who's boss. So I let him have his "secret".

Claire

I don't see anything wrong with men watching porn as long
as they don't neglect their significant others.

What I'd like to know from women:
Why do you object so vividly to your
husbands/significant others watching porn?

What is it, that disturbs you?
Do you feel threatened, or what is it?

porn is cool..heh heh heh.....