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Thu 9 Feb, 2017 01:47 pm
Hello everybody!
First time on this forum.
I guess I just wanted to share my story.
I had been in a 5 year relationship with my boyfriend, he was 5 years younger than me, a lot of people told me i shouldnt date a younger guy but I did not really think it was a bad thing, now I agree!
Maybe I shouldnt have trusted that much, one of the red flags was that he never posted pictures with me on his facebook account, never ever, he said that was a private thing and he didnt like it, I thought maybe it was just the way he was but then i started thinkinng maybe he was hiding or hiding me from somebody, it was last year where i finally decided to ask a friend to hack his facebook account and boy I was right, he was seeing other girls, 4, chatting every day, he would see them on differente occassios, he would use the same lines , also make them their favorite food which was also something he did it for me.
I was so angry and so dissapointed, I never thought he was like that, I was also angry at my self for being so naive and to trust somebody.
Sometimes I think its almost impossible to find a good guy that doesnt cheat!!
@Romantic8,
I am really sorry that this happened to you. You're right that there were some red flags, and so good on you for recognizing that.
Of course not everyone is like that. I would also suggest you get yourself tested for STDs. I hope you can put this whole sorry episode behind you.
@jespah,
Thank you!
I did and I am healthy
I guess sometimes when we fall in love we dont see see things clearly or in my case didnt have the courage to be more up front at the beginning because i didnt want to be a controlling girlfriend, but now I have learned from my mistakes.
@Romantic8,
Yay for healthy!
And now - you've learned and you've got tools. Go get 'em, tiger.
@Romantic8,
a hard lesson to learn, but at least you realize what you'll need to look for the next time.
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