Can We Still Work?

I know I have posted things several times before but I really am having some marrital problems and the only way I can get them out of my head is to talk to someone about them.
I had a talk with my husband the other day about how he has not treated my like a husband would treat his new wife. He isn't excited about it at all, he acts like it was a shotgun wedding or something which it wasn't. Though we are young (both 21) we still knew that we wanted to get married. The problem I am having is this:
I am a very giving and understanding person. I have given him everything he has ever wanted. I give him his space, his boys nights, I let him join a frat...the list goes on. But every time I ask him to give me something in return, its always excuses or "i'll try" or "a person can't change over night." He always is making up excuses as to why he can't be kind or caring or loving or understanding or compasionate. It's always something. The new thing that I have been asking him for is to treat my like a husband. You know, when a husband comes home a kisses his wife and is glad to be home to see her.
I have been asking for this since july and still have not recieved it. Tonight, he told me that he was going out with our friends (we have the same friends) and that I am not allowed to come. This is coming from the man who just got back on sunday from an all weekend frat house vacation all boys night camping trip for three days. I give him everything he wants...guys nights, drunk nights, movie nights with the guys, hooters nights, and occasionally he will bring me to a party.
I am waiting for him to get home to tell him about how sick I am of always giving to him and never recieving anything in return.

So the question is...can we still make it? Is there anythign I can do to save the marriage?