@anonymousFC,
Quote: I’m not saying I let him get involved in my life
So you say you don't let him get involved with your life? Yet you make this statement.
Quote:when a man tries to enter my life or tries to date me he doesn’t like it and goes and messes it up.
How does he become aware that a man has entered your life? Do you tell him? Or do mutual friends tell him? If you tell him, then you are indeed letting him get involved. If a mutual friend tells him, then you need to stop telling these mutual friends when you get involved with someone new. (Plus I would contend that if they are running off and telling him, then they are not really "mutual" friends, they are his friends that you mistake for also being yours.)
Quote:I also went to his engagement party, he is a family friend and all, and while people were saying their congrats to him and kissing him on his cheek when I walked up to the stage he stood up for only me. He didn’t even stand up for his own mother.
If he has been so disruptive to your relationships, why would you even go? And the only reason that you would even notice or care to mention this indicates to me that you still have a thing for him. Otherwise there is no reason to even write this in a post about why he won't let you move on.
It doesn't. Other than to make me wonder why the ex boyfriend didn't file an assault charge against him.
Bottom line, he is no longer your boyfriend and is soon to be married. No reason anyone should be informing him when you start seeing someone new. If he does not know, then he cannot mess things up. (You never explained how he "messes it up." I find it strange that rather than explain that, you go on to write about how he stood up only for you at his engagement party.)
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