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Sun 10 Oct, 2004 02:47 pm
Edit [Moderator]: Moved from General to Relationships & Marriage.
for all the teen guys out there what do u like in a girl? (some help please)lol
I am hardly a teen—61 years old—and my teen years were crippled by an incredible shyness, especially with girls, but I think it's safe to say that boys want girls that they can talk with.
There was a television program called "Fame" about an arts magnet school. One boy, who studied the tuba, liked a girl but was too shy to approach her. He asked a friend what he should do. The friend suggested that he think of her as his pet dog and talk to her as if she were his dog just to feel comfortable. At lunch time he sits next to her and after a short while asks, "Would you like a biscuit?"
Holister,
Teen boys are not likely to know what they (really) like in a girl, let alone tell the truth about it.
Also, their perspectives will change with maturity (not all will gain this maturity).
The big question for now, I think, would be what do YOU like in a boy?
Do you like a cute guy, a sexy guy, one who is in control over others (like the leader of his group of friends), an intelligent guy, a bookworm type, the sweet personality, a guy with a friendly, warm smile, a guy who treats all girls respectfully, a guy who disrespects some people but is kind to others?
What kind of guy to you like? What kind should you like?
A guy you like should be one you can be friends with, and not one where you cannot be yourself around.
When you find the type of person you like, you will better know how to spot the type who will like you. The reason is, you will like certain qualities in a boy that you yourself possess.
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