@CalamityJane,
Or perhaps he's just decided to start an entirely new chapter in his life, Jane?
It does sound like there have been a lot of big changes in a pretty short time!
Maybe there are not enough hours in each day to fit everything in right now?
Anyway, I don't think we should take this too personally ...
People come & go all the time.
And I wouldn't be at all surprised if m returned here, at sometime down the track.
Whenever I think of m, I think of those health shoes of his, the ones with the 5 toes ...