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Our housemate smells

 
 
Reply Thu 24 Nov, 2016 08:48 am
We live in a big student house. We have one housemate who is very scary and we don't speak to him. He smells terrible. Really terrible. We are worried for his health but we are too scared to talk to him about it because a) he's scary and b) it's awkward. He does not ever wash. He smells off sweat and poos.

We have considered balancing a bucket of soapy water over a doorframe but it is arguably unethical. What can we do?
 
ossobucotemp
 
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Reply Thu 24 Nov, 2016 11:03 am
@poplars4life,
I am guessing he comes from a place that has different takes on the matter of hygiene.

You band together to ostrasize him. Poor guy. You are the scary ones.
Fil Albuquerque
 
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Reply Thu 24 Nov, 2016 11:39 am
@ossobucotemp,
Nearly choked with laughter ! Laughing
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edgarblythe
 
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Reply Thu 24 Nov, 2016 11:40 am
Engage the man in non confrontational conversation. See if you have common ground. See if he can be talked to. If you can build any empathy at all, suggest to him after a time (minutes, hours, days?) that he is subjecting you to his bad smells by not bathing. He just may be a bit more approachable if you don't ignore him.
cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Thu 24 Nov, 2016 12:46 pm
@edgarblythe,
That's true; bad smells can become invisible to the person who lives in it too long and become accustomed to it.
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