It bothers me and makes me mad that?

"Just" for them to like you?

It seems like an all consuming obsession, not a "just"

I think this person is on the spectrum.

Being a person judged 10 in looks has its own problems.

So, tell us, are you interested for any reason in the men you know? I mean, what they care about. Now it seems you are talking about men, not boys. Men vary, as do boys. Do you just want one that will shill as your boyfriend, or a guy you like and begin to love? Why would you like a guy?

I am hoping you will see a counselor as usually they can help.

Yes, I have thought so. I hope she has access to counsel.

Of course I'm not serious. It's just that you've been given a truckload of sound advice by good and wise people and you've rejected it all. I think you're on your own...

After reading the various threads you've started along this same theme, I'm beginning to think that maybe I understand why you might not ever get a boyfriend. As that great philosopher Mr. T once said, "I pity the fool."