@georgeob1,
Quote: (if that indeed is what you really mean by your statement).
It was just snark.
The present hold on power by Republicans can't be denied. At the same time, neither can we properly deny what Americans in toto desire as evidenced by the popular vote. Even if that vote had been exactly 50/50, the present GOP's power makes no sense if we presume a democratic system in place. And that's the faulty presumption.
However it has come about, through intentional strategies (redistricting, voter suppression, a more robust lust for power, etc) or through legacy factors (the electoral college, Senate representation, etc) the system itself is now the key factor in why power is held as we see it.
How the Dems might respond to these facts is the important set of questions. But suggesting that Dems have caused it through arrogance or through social policies is not a rational position to hold (again, the popular vote tells us what citizens want and what they reject). Dems can change behaviors or how they self-present to perhaps minimize their dilemma but that's all superficial. What they do have to do is organize, dig up money and set to a project that matches what the right has done since the seventies to revamp the institutions of the nation such that they are not disadvantaged in the manner they now are.