@Qwertzzyy,
Because I am guessing you don't strike up conversations too often with anyone you don't know.
So start! That means, say hi to people. Be the nice person in your town. Not creepy. You're just saying "
hi" or "
good morning" or "
nice day, we're having!" This is the greengrocer and the girl with a baby stroller and the guy walking his dog. Don't be invasive. Don't be creepy. Don't endanger yourself if you live in a rough neighborhood. Just, say hi.
See, the more often you do it where it doesn't matter, the easier it will be for you to do this when it does. And on the way, you might make some friends or at least brighten somebody's day.