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What Does This Mean

 
 
Reply Tue 13 Sep, 2016 09:54 pm
I had a crush on this guy for a while now but I wanted to be friends a little longer before I told him how I felt. My best friend told him how I felt and for a week he wasn't talking to me like he normally did. Fortunately, on Friday, he talked to me and we had a normal conversation like we used to have. We also had a normal conversation on Monday but he keeps denying my feelings for him. Every time someone tells him I like him, he says they're lying. After that, he would give me this look like he is thinking about something. Why does he keep denying the possibility that I have feelings for him?
 
panzade
 
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Reply Tue 13 Sep, 2016 10:32 pm
@soccergirlie11,
Because he's thrilled that you care for him but he's afraid it might not be true and he'll get hurt.
Slow and steady; keep the course 'til he feels comfortable with your attention.
chai2
 
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Reply Tue 13 Sep, 2016 11:02 pm
@panzade,
In addition, stop involving other people discussing this with him. That's immature. This is between you and him
soccergirlie11
 
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Reply Tue 13 Sep, 2016 11:44 pm
@chai2,
I did not tell them to do that, they decided to do it on their own, I wanted to wait until we got to know each other a bit more
roger
 
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Reply Tue 13 Sep, 2016 11:49 pm
@soccergirlie11,
Maybe if he acknowledges your feelings, he will have to respond. He might not be ready to do that.
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Wed 14 Sep, 2016 06:34 am
" he keeps denying my feelings for him."

Those are YOUR feelings. Let him have his own.

Just continue to interact with him, and see what happens. Don't try to force anything.
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chai2
 
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Reply Wed 14 Sep, 2016 09:22 am
@soccergirlie11,
soccergirlie11 wrote:

I did not tell them to do that, they decided to do it on their own, I wanted to wait until we got to know each other a bit more


Then tell them to stop.

This is private and you don't have to tell your friends everything
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Wed 14 Sep, 2016 09:27 am
@soccergirlie11,
soccergirlie11 wrote:
Every time someone tells him I like him


don't tell your friends stuff like this until you've told the person you're interested in

it is not their business and it makes it awkward for the other person when someone tells them

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I saw this in action a few times in the community pool this summer. A boy or girl would tell someone that another person liked them. Invariably the person who'd been told they were liked became really embarassed and avoided the person who they had been told liked them.

The kids who simply went up to people they liked and straight out talked to them did waaaaay better.

Talking about feelings? that doesn't go over so well before there is an actual relationship
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