@Joe Joe ,
Why don't you join some a group with people your own age. Those sorts of groups can include:
- singles groups
- volunteer/charity organisations
- church
- outdoor activities groups (eg kayaking, hiking etc)
- etc
This way you get to talk to and know women your own age.
Or try online dating (it's just another way to meet people), or both online dating, and the above.
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As to your original question - creepiness is in the delivery / circumstances. What you described would probably be creepy (much more likely the bigger the age difference, and the more anxious you are), but perhaps not.