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Tue 14 Sep, 2004 11:55 am
Ok i'm a 15 year old male and I have a lot of problems talking to girls. The main reason for this is because im shy at first, but once I get to know someone pretty well I open up. This is my downfall, as if I talk to a girl, im shy at first, so the girl will quickly assume i'm a boring person and not bother talking to me again, so I dont even get the chance to open up. So you see it is a viscious cycle. Yeah I know im young and everything and everyone is probably gonna tell me that that I ahouldn't be worrying about these kinds of things now, but the worrying thing is that most boys my age can talk to girls, so while they are all forming freindships/relationships with them, im getting left sidelined, so I feel even more distanced from them. Anyway I want your advice on this.
Practice
or
Write letters
or
Use the internet
or
Just go and talk to them now and don't give a **** what happens now... that way you'll be confident when you're older
The only thing you can do is try to push yourself out of your shell.
The very best of luck to you.
Kicky
You bad!
Perhaps your name is throwing them off......
LOL Bear. I didn't catch that until you mentioned it, haha!
Do you know Phil McKraken?
Yeah, He's a good friend of Mike Hunt.
aaah, the classics never go out of style.
Love reading such gay repartee.
Signed Ben Dover
Hee hee, we're very bad :-D
ignoring all the jocularity, is there a reason you want to talk to girls? Once you start you can never quit (listening, I mean)