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I need advice please?

 
 
Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2016 12:46 pm
hi i been in a relationzship for 8 months now. of course me an d my girl had problems. 2 weeks ago now I think she said I didn't care about her or wasn't showing that I did so she called it off... We haven't had much contact due to her phone problems
And wifi... She is at vocation to her aunts house at France, she has 2 kids her age but they also had a friend ( a nigga) that stayed with them, a year older than her. The less me and her talked and the more arguments we had, the more they talked obviously. Like just talk, nothing like that but it still bothered me... We called each other and everything. Then finally a week agod ago I was like yo are u in or are u out. She agreed, but an hour later she saw I accepted friend requests a week ago from random girls ( I didn't mean anything by it, I don't even know them) but she got upset and started blabbing about how she was right to call it off... She was upset and that dude was listening to her and everything. Now I hear she likes him cause she feels comfortable and ****. She is also ignoring me more in order to get over me completely. I didn't care as much until she told me she is getting used to him and they pretty much talk cause they stay same house. She says he is serious and cares about her and she can't stand me at the moment... Her cousins and family don't really speak same language so they don't communicate as much and he speaks English. She is going to Italy soon and wants him to come. I don't know if this is a lost battle for me or
Not...notice she's been in france for 3 weeks, first 2 weeks me and her had contact and she was finally gonna give me a chance a week ago but i fucked up when i accepted friend requests from girls i dont even know.. he came into her room and she told him everything and you know what he pulled. now they hang out and they are talking about marriage and all that. whenever time i call her she says she likes him and i am only in the way. yesterday i told her to give me a chance before it goes too far and then i contacted a girl she hates for advice and found out and then she said my chances are ruined forever. I love this girl and im keep messin up. help me. what should i do? i dont want to give up... She lives in another country and should be leaving soon but the more they are together the less chance i have because she'll fall in love with him. before i use to get her back and she was always like i dont know what i want but now she is saying i like him and all. is there a chance for me?
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2016 12:53 pm
@whatisit2014,
You're a racist. Nobody is going to respond to your post.
AnonAnon2016
 
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Reply Wed 20 Jul, 2016 01:33 pm
@cicerone imposter,
racist!
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Thu 21 Jul, 2016 05:50 am
@whatisit2014,
You may or may not be a racist. Based on your single use of a certain word I can understand why someone would jump to that conclusion, but I will take the high road since I do not know you and I don't think I can judge someone based on the single usage of a word. So I have two suggestions for you.

First, leave this girl alone. She has made it plain to you that the two of you are through. Maybe she does not like the kind of person you are, (one who uses racist language) or maybe she just found someone she cares about more than you. Doesn't matter. She has made it clear that she does not want to be with you. So stop bothering her.

Second, it would be great if you learned from this that people are people, no matter the color, nationality, religion or whatever. Using disparaging language to talk about someone else only shows how backward and stupid you really are. And it might well be why this girl decided she had enough of you.
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