Fell in love and left

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When I was younger about 14 I fell in love with a 14 turning 15 year old girl. We were each other's first love. We both know it. After a long time of her and I being together her best friend started wanting to hang out with me alot by that time I was 15 turning 16. I started developing feelings for her best friend so I broke it off with her. I broke her heart,as mine was breaking. It was awhile before her best friend and I started dating and we both decided it was best off not telling her at that time. Her best friend cheated on me. Broke my heart multiple times I stayed with her for 3 years. When my first love found out about it, it was war between the both of them. And during that time her best friend and I were together I cheated on the best friend with my first love multiple times. Now here we are I'm 20 and she will be turning 21, my first love and I. I want to be with her every moment I was away from her. And I still want to be with her currently. I am openly gay. She is not. She's beyond scared to be with me and I don't know how to help with that. She rarely talks to me because she knows she can't control the love she feels for me. And that discourages me. I just want advice on how to continue on with her. Any help?

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@advice4lyfe30,

advice4lyfe30 wrote:

She rarely talks to me because she knows she can't control the love she feels for me.

I would be surprised if that were the problem. Sounds more like she learned something from the experience.

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@advice4lyfe30,

This is a bit complicated. There's a lot of problem and lack of communication. Just go and talk with your first love. Explode your feelings. She may take some time, but if she has love for you, she'll surely understand you.

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Explode your feelings? Wouldn't that leave stains on your clothing?

English not your native language?

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"I just want advice on how to continue on with her."

You have no choice but to try to be friends with her and see what happens from that.

Are you sure she is gay? Has she had other gay relationships?

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@advice4lyfe30,

What a confusing post:

- You fell in love with a girl (A).
- You broke up with her, to be with her best female friend (B)
- You didn't tell (A)
- but later you cheated on (B) with (A), even while (B) cheated on you with 'someone'

Now

- You want to be with her, but you are gay, while she is not...in the context of the story, that doesn't even make sense.

- you want her to trust you, even after leaving her for her best friend, years of lying to her about that relationship, and continuing to sleep with her while being in a secret relationship with her best friend. What is it about this sort of behaviour that you believe is deserving of trust?

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