[closed]So I try to open my PM's and get ...

Lash wrote:

dlowan wrote:

Lash wrote:

Can I use this for PMs?

Dlowan-- I need to communicate something to you. I don't see an e-mail addy.

I don't mind putting it here, if you don't object. <bothering me for a couple of days>

Well, as long as it is neither very private, nor rude, go for it.

LOL! I guess I deserved the 'not too rude' comment. That is why I'm feeling the need for the PM actually...

The offense was public, so perhaps the public apology is warranted.

I had a recent tango with someone here, which gave me a bit of consternation. She was shadowing me about, being very negative about everything I said, every where I said it, and made several personal remarks as well. Of course, normally I can handle this--but she did lure me to the wrong side of TOS, and I recieved a warning....

The moral of this story is, as I reviewed this affair, it reminded me of the time I did something very similar to you. It had started with good natured (though a little rough) intent, but I should have been considerate of how you felt about it. I now know how aggravating this can be from the other side. It made me truly sorry that I had caused you to feel that way. This PM debacle has made me unable to apologize, and it has been wearing a hole in my bloomers.

I'm sure we'll disagree pretty regularly, but I will never consciously repeat that behavior again.

I sincerely apologize. I hope you can accept my apology.

I very much appreciate the apology, Sofia, and I am happy to accept it.