Sexless relationship

Reply Sat 9 Jul, 2016 03:16 am
I can't satisfy me partner . I'm 35 and she is 33 . I've tried all sorts of medications and had my testosterone levels checked , which were fine . I'm now questioning my sexuality . I've had two same sex encounters before and although I never hated them my penis still did not work . I find my girlfriend very attractive and she means the world to me , but I feel I'm letting her down now and that she may leave . Am I a repressed homosexual ? What are the signs of such a thing ? We speak about things very openly so that helps . The other day she asked would I suck another mans penis and I said that I probably would Sad I don't fancy men but I find penises attractive . At the same time I love female bodies but as I'm not performing for her I feel I might just be outright gay . I love her body and the smell of her body but I can't hey hard with her to have sex . I've had a long history of mental problems so that's probably not helping matters . I'm so close to letting her go now as I'm not making her happy . We've even tried porn to help things . She let me watch lesbian porn ... Which is amazing for a woman to let me watch , but it didn't help . I always Fantasise about another guy sleeping with her and me watching . How should I progress from here ? Am I gay ? I've met two guys before and I would do it again , my love for penis will get the better of me , but I don't fancy men . What is going on ? Please can someone offer any advice
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Reply Sat 9 Jul, 2016 08:46 am
"as I'm not performing for her I feel I might just be outright gay ."

Wow - that's a big leap.

Look - you are turned on by both sexes. Relax about this. You may be bi, who knows?

If you have been checked out physically, then this inability to sustain an erection is performance anxiety. (You can't yell at your penis and demand it get - and stay - hard, so stop yelling at it/yourself) Most likely you would have this anxiety with either sex.

Women don't need an erect penis to be satisfied. (orgasm) There are lots of ways to make love to your lady lover and never even have intercourse. So learn how to do this and let nature take it course.
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