Noddy24 wrote:It isn't "right"--but we agreed that madames with wandering eyes are not good soulmate material. Once a poopsie....you can't trust again.
Lol! I'll be laughing all day at those 2 lines!
I've got to ask stuh, though, do you really think all your dates are sizing up your friends and going for them after you, or is it just paranoia after the experience happening that way once? I ask this b/c it's not uncommon for people with like interests to meet and do things without the person who introduces them, especially if you were at work or otherwise unavailable at the time the meeting was supposed to take place... and sometimes instances work out like this one, true story: I'm a massage therapist and have met clients through other people and see the clients alone, then possibly develop a relationship with them, and have used a personal trainer who was the spouse of a friend, and he and I traded massage for training, and became quite good friends beyond hs wife's and my friendship, but it is all perfectly innocent... neither of us were poopsies w/wandering eyes, we were wondering if we could better ourselves with barter, and it did work... I'm thinking that it
could be perfectly innocent, but you are looking through a plank of deceit and see what you want to see, kwim?