WOW, thanks for the reply, guys! I'm a forum junkies, but this is the first time I find a forum where people act so mature and respect each other.
Well to continue the story, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years, and she already knows all my families and cousins, and she's already sort of counted as a member of my family. I've known her parents quite well too, and also her twin sister.
And my relationship with my girlfriend is really open, I think it's just me, but I always pour out all things in my brain to her, she's like my walking diary :wink: She seems to learn that too from me, so we share all good/bad things, even things that for many people are secrets.
She's really my best friend and at the same time a lover
So maybe I feel i've taken for granted about my relationship, that's why it's hard to make something special/formal. I've known that she's going to say 'yes' anyway, since we've already talked about getting married plenty of times. That makes me uncertain that if it's the case, should I still do propose her just for the sake of formality?
Also I currently live in Australia, while my parents are overseas. I don't want them special coming here just to do the proposing.
The other reason why I don't want too much involvement from my parents, because when it comes to wedding, they are going to plan to celebrate it in an extravaganza way, party at expensive hotel with hundreds of guests whom mostly I don't know. I know they do that for prestige, again it's something quite common there. The money spent is from them, the presents (which is usually less than the cost of the party) are uaully for the bride&groom, the prestige is for you-know-who.
My plan is I want to have a simple wedding with my own money and celebrate it with my immediate family and close friends only.
So there I've written my diary for today. Hope none of you is snoring now.
Thanks again for the warm welcome and the helpful replies