Had the "move in" talk...didn't go that well...

I have been in a committed relationship with a man for around 10 months now. We are quite serious and have said "I love you" to each other already and regularly say it often. Things are going great and I want to move it forward even more by moving in with him.

About a month ago, I brought up moving in with my boyfriend (he has his own place). I want to move in with him because I love him and want to be around him more. Before we had this talk I was seeing him around 5 days a week but I didn't stay over all the time. I usually saved that for weekends. The "talk" didn't go as well as I thought it would. He basically said that we needed to be around each-other more and that we weren't ready for it yet. Then he suggested that I stay overnight more often and bring clothes and stuff over to "try it out". I know his reasons are logical, but a part of me can't help but feel hurt that he didn't feel the same way about it (as excited as I was).

A little bit of background. I live with my parents right now (past roommate kicked me out for her new bf to move in). I moved in temporarily with them (or so I thought) and then things took a turn for the worst. I got cut down to part time hours at work ( I work in Oil & Gas) and my salary was reduced 40%. I am in Marketing and don't make a ton to begin with so my temporary stay at mom and dads turned more permanent. I had some lingering debt as well that I planned to pay down and was on track until that curve ball hit. I was able to afford a place with my friend before and pay down this debt until things with my job turned south. My parents told me they would give me a break on rent until I payed it off. I also started my own company doing freelance during this time and after four months was debt free. Then, my dad got laid off and wants to start charging me a reasonable amount for rent which is totally fine by me.

It has been a month now of me spending most nights at his house and I feel so scatterbrained and tired. I feel like nomad that is wandering around without a place to call home. It is also hard on me because of the fact that my parents are always saying I am never around and I feel guilty for this. It's like I am being pulled in two different directions. I feel like I am putting in all of the sacrifice in the relationship which is leading me to become resentful of him.

I know your probably thinking that the easiest way to fix this is that I move into my own place...but to me that would make me feel horrible paying rent to some stranger when I could be supporting my family during these hard times. At least if I moved in with my boyfriend I wouldn't have this guilt as they know I am in love with him and see a future together.

He mentioned that things with his ex went horribly after she moved in. I thought his comment was kind of unfair though as we are completely different people. I am wondering how long it'll be until he is ready and how long I will have to continue living like this for?

Any advice is much appreciated!