Makeup or Dirt Stains on Fiance's TShirt?

Separately - he's a grown-up - let him do his own laundry.

I used "Awesome" cleaner from the dollar tree! I love that stuff

Yea. It wasn't from a sweatshirt, it's been warm outside and he doesn't have anything close to that color. I have thought of every possible explanation before I jumped to conclusions and assumed it looked like lipstick, which is why I asked for advice on the matter as well. And his excuse as far as his pants... A cigarette cherry and blood? A cherry woul have burned through the pocket and he would of had a visible wound on his leg (he doesn't). And yes, we made an appointment for counseling next week.

What she said.

Separately, the man thinks women should do the laundry. I'm the only one that does laundry... Not him.

He's a big boy. Surely he can do his own damned laundry.

Why the hell are you telling me this? I made no comments about laundry.

This is the post to which i responded:

Perhaps that's one of the things that will change as a result of counselling.

Good to hear counselling will happen.

Doesn't matter what anyone here says.

She's made up her mind what it is.

I apologize as that was not intended for you. I am new to this site and accidentally replied to you. I'm sorry again.

I have not made up my mind on what it is. I am going through a hard time and I appreciate the responses from everyone. I have spoke with my fiancé some more and he has made only made it harder to believe him because of his lies. I have since been accused and yelled at by him since I asked him about the shirt. His mom and sister told me that it does look like lipstick and he has done this to his ex wife so my fears are confirmed.

At this point it doesnt matter.
You dont trust him and he is now really getting irritated with you because you keep pushing the issue.
Let us know what comes out of counseling. You need a professional ear to help sort all this out.