Separately - he's a grown-up - let him do his own laundry.
Thu 19 May, 2016 09:07 pm
I used "Awesome" cleaner from the dollar tree! I love that stuff
Thu 19 May, 2016 09:18 pm
Yea. It wasn't from a sweatshirt, it's been warm outside and he doesn't have anything close to that color. I have thought of every possible explanation before I jumped to conclusions and assumed it looked like lipstick, which is why I asked for advice on the matter as well. And his excuse as far as his pants... A cigarette cherry and blood? A cherry woul have burned through the pocket and he would of had a visible wound on his leg (he doesn't). And yes, we made an appointment for counseling next week.
I apologize as that was not intended for you. I am new to this site and accidentally replied to you. I'm sorry again.
Sun 22 May, 2016 11:47 am
I have not made up my mind on what it is. I am going through a hard time and I appreciate the responses from everyone. I have spoke with my fiancé some more and he has made only made it harder to believe him because of his lies. I have since been accused and yelled at by him since I asked him about the shirt. His mom and sister told me that it does look like lipstick and he has done this to his ex wife so my fears are confirmed.
At this point it doesnt matter.
You dont trust him and he is now really getting irritated with you because you keep pushing the issue.
Let us know what comes out of counseling. You need a professional ear to help sort all this out.