2
   

Ex Girlfriend wants a relationship again

 
 
Reply Sat 14 May, 2016 08:47 pm
My ex girlfriend of a long distance relationship lasting just over a year, sent me a text last night. She asked for us to get back together.

She left pretty nastily and said she found someone else and acted so immature and had been for about a month that I really didn't understand who she was anymore. It was like she moved to another city and her whole personality changed too. Maybe to try to fit in with friends (which she has also had sex with after alcohol and taking drugs) If I got back together with her then I couldn't trust because while we were in a relationship she did that with her friends and changed her pictures on facebook to some sexual pictures (her pulling up her top and stuff) and she wanted to talk more with her friends than with me and she wanted to spend christmas and new year with them.

She got back together before but then told me that it was just because she was bored.

I know she's been having breakdowns now and then but honestly, I don't want to be sucked back into something that is toxic and just to cure her boredom so I need to know it is 100% real (she said that she want's it properly this time).

I do feel something for her but I want to know why she wants a relationship now and why she thinks I should trust her considering all that she has done. But maybe years from now I might look back and wish that I talked to her. I really don't know.

what do you think I should do?
  • Topic Stats
  • Top Replies
  • Link to this Topic
Type: Question • Score: 2 • Views: 829 • Replies: 2
No top replies

 
vikorr
 
  1  
Reply Sun 15 May, 2016 02:01 am
@kevin thomas,
Hmm, everything you wrote tells me that you know what you should do, intellectually.

Emotionally, it seems to be a different story.

Do you feel a desire to rescue her?
0 Replies
 
PUNKEY
 
  1  
Reply Sun 15 May, 2016 02:10 pm
This girl acts crazy! Why would you even want to talk to her, much less be in a "relationship" with her.

By the way, is she drinking and having sex with people that she is actually WITH, while you are try to have a relationship LONG DISTANCE with her?

THINK about this, for goodness sake!
0 Replies
 
 

Related Topics

A good cry on the train - Discussion by Joe Nation
I want to run away. I can't do this anymore. Help? - Question by unknownpersonuser
Please help, should I call CPS?? - Question by butterflyring
I Don't Know What To Do or Think Anymore - Question by RunningInPlace
Flirting? I Say Yes... - Question by LST1969
My wife constantly makes the same point. - Question by alwayscloudy
Cellphone number - Question by Smiley12
 
  1. Forums
  2. » Ex Girlfriend wants a relationship again
Copyright © 2024 MadLab, LLC :: Terms of Service :: Privacy Policy :: Page generated in 0.06 seconds on 12/06/2024 at 01:03:22