You see, I'm willing to give her another chance. We talked last week, came to the point where I told her, "You miss me, and I do miss you... I'd like to go about this again, but I'm at the point to where either you want to try this, or I'm not going to put my emotions through this situation where you don't know what you want, and I'm here in love with you." It's been a week with onetext a day, no where along the lines that she's made a decision yet. ***We've been through this process 3 times in the past 4 months and this is the last one for me***
The break-up was a "it's not you it's me" break-up. She was dealing with a lot of self issues of hers and she couldn't be happy with herself, thus she couldn't give me a solid effort in the relationship, so she broke up with me. I understood and went my way, but got very confused when she would hit me up every other week, literally for a day.. then leave me alone for a week again. She states that she is much better now than before, but I still feel like I'm talking to the same old girl that isn't being comepletly honest with herself.