@Tes yeux noirs,
We from the small countries in Scandinavia do not have a word to say in EU, that is our impression.
We often have the feeling we are run by Merkel and now Obama comes too and tells UK what to do. I would have reacted just the same if he had said out.
The day the small countries also have a voice I would feel different.
Löfven or Løkke Rasmussen noone listens to within EU - they come back from
Brussels and say that Merkel has said....