Lesbian that wants to sleep with a man

Start by asking him out. If he agrees, go out and talk with him.

He'll either be into it or not. Great if he is, no biggie if he isn't.

Assuming I were currently unattached, I would be open to this. My advice is to simply be honest and upfront.

I thought I read somewhere in the past that some women have toggled back and forth between hetero and lesbian, usually in separate phases. Naturally, there are true bisexuals also.

Yes.

If you want to try something new gay might not be the best choice. Maybe some nice, handsome, strong, smart Slavic hetero? You can send me PM with photo and I'll reply you swiftly!

Or just ask the dude out and make it clear you are curious in him.

This presents to me, no difficulty. Men, while admittedly, simply programmed , we are not complete idiots. This is especially true when we envision a little bit of nookie at the end.
Why not get a copy of the Seinfeld episode where Jerry and Elaine engage in a conversation about having "friendly" sex when they were no longer a couple. Just unattached hot sex and no expectations that ruin their friendship.
Its a subtle hottie that, if he doesnt get it as you watch the episode together, you can assume that he is without a pulse.

There was also an episode about how they "liked it" . (Jerry would engage in a little "swirl" at the end ) and ELaine admitted how she liked that move.

Laughs ensue.