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Mon 11 Apr, 2016 07:12 pm
Ok so my husband and I have been together for 14 years and we have 4 kids together. We have a great relationship and rarely argue. Today out of the blue he text me and this was our conversation:
HIM: I think I want to move out something doesnt feel right
ME: why the hell would you send me some bullshit like this over a text
HIM: I should be gone by the time you are home.
ME: Stop it you're making my stomach hurt this is not funny!
HIM: laughing face emoji
I didnt have time to call him since I was so busy at work but that bothered me all day and all the way home. He always jokes about **** and forgets to say he is kidding but he has never joked about our relationship so it really bothered me. So when I got home clearly upset he tells me you are mad over a dumb text!? I was like YES it was not funny to me so he slammed the room door and left the house! Wtf I am not one to chase him or be blowing up his phone I will let him get over it but what bothers me is I am the one that was upset over his dumb joke and now he is mad at me! Wtf??
I know no one is going to tell me "whats wrong with him" I guess I just wanted to vent because I never vent about our arguments to anyone.
Look up passive aggressive .
What he did was downright mean and insensitive. Was he showing off for someone or just mean?
@PUNKEY,
I dont even know what possessed him to do it we didn't even talk about it. Sometimes he gets bored and will text me random crap but this tops it all. I honestly am left dumbfounded like wth just happened and why were the tables turned and now its like I fucked up somehow and he is mad at me! I dont get it