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Sun 10 Apr, 2016 07:39 pm
So I met this amazing girl a few weeks back and we started to get to know each other and it was a lot of fun for us. This girl, I feel, is pretty much exactly the same as me, we both like exactly the same things to the same extent and both hate things to the same extent as well.
We met up just the two of us yesterday, but it didn't feel like it was just as friends or that we were going out or anything. From what I felt, there was some sexual tension between us the whole time. To be fair I did miss my opportunity throughout the day as she was dropping hints throughout, as was I, but nothing happened, even at the end nothing happened. I know I should have done something but I know I missed my opportunity.
I am just not too good at making the first move, even if it is obvious that the girl is into me, and is obvious to everyone.
This girl is just amazing and I do not want to lose her.
The only problem is that she is going back home (I live in Australia, and she is in Slovakia) so it is just to far to do some big romantic gesture. I have tried long distance with other relationships and the only reason they didn't work was because of the other person not being committed. I feel like it could work between us even though it is long distance. I do go over to Europe almost every year for a month or two on holidays so we can see each other then, and I plan on going on exchange in the next year or two then moving over there in the future to live and work.
We still talk/"low key" flirt but nothing is yet official. She leaves tonight to go back home.
Please give me some good advice I am serious about this girl.
@jesse blochfdydxs,
jesse blochfdydxs wrote:So I met this amazing girl a few weeks back and we started to get to know each other and it was a lot of fun for us.
We still talk/"low key" flirt but nothing is yet official. She leaves tonight to go back home.
I am serious about this girl.
you're still in the early stages of getting to know this girl/young woman
stay in touch after she goes home but keep on meeting new people and dating where you are
if you're both still interested when you are next in her home country, you can get together and see what the chemistry is like
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things can get a bit intense when a time of change is coming up. relax, and enjoy communicating with her while you continue to meet new people
@ehBeth,
So thats it, just stay friends?
@jesse blochfdydxs,
What else do you want? You hardly know her.
Just because you feel sexual tension with a girl is no reason to bind you to each other in a LD relationship. There's not that much to develop long distance.
Make plans to see her asap. This must develop IN PERSON.
@jesse blochfdydxs,
That's what you'd be doing if she wasn't moving.
You'd be a friend, getting to know her. You'd both be deciding if you liked each other enough to be more than casual, short-term friends.
Sexual tension and sex is easy. Friendship is the trickier part.
There's no point in rushing it.