Maybe someone (reasonable) experienced this too: for quite a few days you have rather grumpy mood (reasons might vary, let's just say grumpy overall) but yet you feel a bit for meeting new people, in this case, girls (I am male). The problem is, I am n0t sure how my mood influences my charisma. I mean, when you are OK and relaxed, everything is nice and easy (which girls love - being relaxed, confident) but I have virtually no idea how I look to other people when I am a bit grumpy. Does it make sense?
The reason why I am asking for is that on the one one hand I don't want to "forcefully push" things up, but on the other hand being overly passive and wait until better winds will blow (maybe for weeks, maybe more) might not be that a good solution.
If it makes sense to you and you feel you can add something beneficial, please feel free to do so.
PS: On of the reason of my current mood is that I am separated from my native social cycle (there are no similar-minded people in my area). In order to compensate, I spent time on social networks to search for at least written communication. In general it works, but there are a lot of disrespectful (or even mean) people that I feel uncomfortable with. So, just in case, if you are one of them, there is a great debate going on about U.S. presidential elections. Great place to talk.
PPS: In case you are thinking about that - no, I am not searching for ways on how to improve my social connections. If you feel about discussing this, I think your time might not be appreciated properly
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