Texting a guy who has a gf

When Jack Kennedy begin dating his future first lady she was engaged to another man so unless they had kids I would not be too concern at this point but you are opening yourself to some drama.

He has a girlfriend.

Maybe he has other girls/women as friends. It's not unusual.

But he always asks me when will i be back in town (because we study in different cities) . And we made a silly bet where the winner gets to have one wish from the loser

I will only say this. If you were his girlfriend would you be ok with him acting this way toward someone else? What exactly would you think of the girl who was acting this way toward your guy? And do you really think that if he is flirting with you (come on, you know as well as I do that the whole "bet" is designed to lead to something risque) that he would not flirt with someone else in the same way if he should dump his girlfriend for you?

Nothing wrong with being his friend. Nothing wrong with the two of you texting. But stay away from flirting with him until such time as he is no longer in a relationship with someone else.

If you can't accept him as a friend, instead of a potential boyfriend, you should probably end contact with him.

You should also consider why you were considering a flirtatious get-together with someone in a relationship.

She is under no obligation to honor any commitment he may had made to the other woman as that is between them not her and him.