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I'm not sure if I can believe him

 
 
Reply Sat 12 Mar, 2016 10:22 am
I recently found my boyfriend going through my phone which is fine because I told him i have nothing to hide. I got to thinking it was odd so I checked his. I found links to dating websites and fling.com etc. along with other women sites and porn. I can get past the porn but why would a man who is committed go on a dating website? He says he doesn't know he must have been curious and that it was long ago. Initially he lied and said he was curious, then his friends told him to look, then it was something he saw on TV. He gets angry if I ask him questions and won't talk. Keeps telling me he loves me and only wants to be with me and it was just curiosity and he never registered or was looking for someone else. What should I think and how do I decide what to do???
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Confused36
 
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Reply Sun 13 Mar, 2016 08:47 am
@Confused36,
If anyone has any advise I'd appreciate it.
Fil Albuquerque
 
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Reply Sun 13 Mar, 2016 09:01 am
@Confused36,
Odd. If you not sure then you already commited not to.
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vikorr
 
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Reply Sun 13 Mar, 2016 04:18 pm
@Confused36,
- You know he's suspicious of you (liars are the first to suspect others are lying, fraudsters are the first to suspect others of fraud, cheaters are the first to suspect others of cheating etc)

- You know he's visited affair sites

- You already know he's lying (seriously...changing his story several times...you don't do that if you are telling the truth).

What's left to work out?
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PUNKEY
 
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Reply Sun 13 Mar, 2016 06:43 pm
"he never registered or was looking for someone else."

Maybe it IS curiosity.

But it's more disturbing that you two don't really trust each other. He's looking at your phone, you check up on his.
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