Well hallo New, I am Count of Banterbury .
Your post made me quite giggle. You actually registered to a public forum to express your personality, seek for positive people and make ease to your recent breakup by starting a thread in a relationship section. Girl, you are way more lost than you think. To give you a slight glimpse, I have started 3 topics here, 2 ended up in senseless b*tching I did not ask for. And yeah, this is one of the best places when you are looking for not annoying people. No irony meant.
So, good luck with whatever agenda you have here, but to give you a word of advice: if you are looking for wisdom or spirituality, I would trust more people whose faces I've actually seen.