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I have a crush on my best friend, what do I do??

 
 
Reply Wed 2 Mar, 2016 10:42 am
I have a crush on my best friend, and I don't know what to fo. We have literally the best friendship you could imahibe, and I don't wanna risk it!!, he's always begging me to tell him who I like and I really wanna tell him, but I don't know how... I know he loves me, but I don't think he loves me THAT way. He knows I love him too, but I don't think he realizes how much. He's also in a relationship with one of his other friends... it's a secret one so only m, him, 2 of our other friends and of course the other girl know about it. I guess they're kinda on a break right now though, cause their families were getting suspicious. But he's really broken up about it! I know he loves her, and honestly I'm fine with that. I really don't care who he's wirh, whether it's me or someone else, I just want him to be happy. Someone please tell me what to do!!! I'm stuck and I'm falling apart about it😭I know the Internet isn't really a good place to be asking life advice like this from, but I'm really stuck and I just don't know what to do...
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jespah
 
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Reply Wed 2 Mar, 2016 11:33 am
@Jessiejohns1217,
I am going to operate under the assumption that you're teens in high school.

Crushes come and go. Friendships can last. In the meantime, though, you're a little too involved in his personal business. Yes, you are close friends, but it feels like the two-seater car of their relationship is crammed with extra people. Also, the 'secret relationship' junk is for the birds. If his folks don't approve, then he's going to need to deal with them at some point, and also own up to the fact that, guess what, he's lying to them.

You so sure you want to be a part of this drama?

Here's an idea. Make other friends. Male, female, whoever. Spend time with other people and extricate yourself from this stuff. Yes, you care. That's nice. But (1) he didn't choose you, (2) he's lying to his folks, and (3) he's unfairly involving you in his own personal junk.
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Davidsuccess
 
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Reply Thu 3 Mar, 2016 01:05 am
@Jessiejohns1217,
On mine side am 45% he also likes u, thou he might also think d way u do (nt wanting to loose d friendship)
so make friend wit oda people and give it a try by telling him d truth (tru friends dont lie to each oda) u dont knw he might jst be feeling d same
jst do ur part nd for get d rest.
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