Am I being too sensative about porn?

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I found out one day that my husband had downloaded porn on my phone to watch or had already watched it. When I brought it up he used the excuse that he had been single for so long it was just something he was used to. I've told him I don't like it and how it makes me feel. He always says he understands but time and time again I'm finding files on the phone. I don't even need to search for them! I share a phone with him so if I want to get onto the internet, I click on IE and all these windows pop up where he has been trying or did download porn. Why is he just dismissive of my feelings? I don't want this to break us up but I CANNOT change how it makes me feel. It's not like I've only said once "this really bothers me." I've definitely said it more than once and I know I was crystal clear on my feelings.

What should I do??

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Get two phones and then forget about the matter as if every wife who husband download porn break up over it there would not be anyone remaining married.

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@ydolem82,

Most men whose wives have banned them from looking at porn, have just looked at it where their wives won't find evidence of their having watched it.

Does his watching porn change who he is? Is he secretly a bad person? Or secretly doesn't love you?

In the scheme of things, how important is it that he not watch porn? Is it more important to you than him being:
- genuine
- thoughtful (to avoid argument on this one - in every other area bar watching porn)
- generous
- helpful
- caring
- ambitious
- friendly
- a good father, sibling, or relative
- loving
- alive / energetic / uplifting
- funny
- a hard worker
- etc

I'be always thought it's good to have some perspective of how problematic something is, before you decide what you need to do about it.

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Inspired by this thread, I have tried downloading porn on my phone, but the whole thing seems a bit pointless as it doesn't have a screen.

Is it some sort of audio download?

I've tried winding the handle and blowing into the mouthpiece, but that just resulted in the operator thinking I was being lewd.

Am I missing something here? If so, please phone me on London 1416.

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@ydolem82,

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What should I do??

Take him by the hand and show him the way.

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