Lesson learned :
Read thread before jumping in.
I have been calling MO your daughter... im sorry. I saw you using "she" alot and I just realized ( when reading like I SHOULD have been doing )
that 'she' was referring to winney..
I should pay more attention.
I will do that next time instead of basically repeating everything that has hit the thread thinking my ideas are original.
I do hope though, that somewhere in this struggle you are having, that you find a nice quiet ending and that the grandparents do not show up to cause any more damage then they already have.
obviously winney has more meaning then originaly thought. It is sad that a child has to have that kind of fear in thier minds.
Your child is lucky to have you for a parent. Do remember that. :wink: