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Relationships are not just about sex, and partners are not there just to be used. Talk to your partner, and let her know that you are frustrated. It is entirely possible that there is something bothering her that you are not paying attention to. Add to that that for many people, the "honeymoon" is a period when they indulge in sex more often than they would ordinarily do, and you might begin to see that twice a week is not that bad. Did you two move in together just so you could get laid, or was there something more substantial behind the move?

You bring out some interesting points view. trust me i want to spend the rest of my life with this woman and i understand that relationships are not only about sex and i always treat her with the best i can but i definitely need more sex. if you are caught jacking off or your private magazine collection is found, all hell breaks loose. i once caught my boss jacking off in his office and i never understood why he was when he had a wife. i discovered his collection as well but all i said was its non o my business. i never thought i would still have to do it even if i was married. i dont wanna cheat, i even turned down her hot cousin when she came onto me hot and heavy... if its gonna be like this now what about when she reaches menopause... Grrrr this sucks...

OOPS> I hit the wrong button. I didn't mean to REPORT. Sorry. Anyway, the sex usually slows down a little. Maybe you're trying during her sleep? I hate that. I am good to go any other time, but I tell hubby "NO" when I am warm and asleep, in the morning, with bed hair and bad breath. No thanks. But, many women would disagree. That's just me. My husband can get me every time with some neck kisses behind my ear. But, if you feel that neglected, it's best to talk about it. 4 months is a really new relationship.

I honestly don't care if my husband masturbates. I would worry if he didn't. Online porn, is a touchy thing, because it sets the bar at a really ridiculous level, and can become an addiction. It sounds like she thinks you're just after "using her holes" for relief. Have you started with other methods, besides just presenting your erection? Oral can be a nice way to wake up. Just sayin. By the way, I like sex MORE as I head toward menopause, so...reconsider that stereotype.

You might want to put this into perspective. If you and your woman are having sex a couple of times a week, you are doing pretty good. I suspect that there are a lot of guys of various ages who would be happy if there woman gave them sex a couple of times a week. Especially after that initial newness and excitement phase has passed. Four times a week was probably not realistic. A new couple might start out having sex 4 times a week because the relationship and the sex is new and exciting. It's not realistic to think that level and frequency of sex will continue. Obviously younger couples generally will have a much higher sex drive than older couples. I just don't think 4 times a week sustained over an extended period of time is realistic. Possibly there could be other issues that you may not be aware of. The only way to find out is for you and your woman talk it out.

Well stated.

I'm happy with birthdays and Christmas, as long as I get some help up the stairs.

I read this earlier and laughed, but will post since I think this guy is way out of line and needs to be answered.

First of all, many women do not orgasm via intercourse. I was a lucky one, don't get me started.. but even for me, this happened some time into the matter.
Actually, it was a one night stand in Mexico that gave me a clue.
I think he died later in a car crash. RIP, Nacho Vega, news from a friend in the area at the time.

You expect this orgasm every time? where did you read this happens? something a schoolmate said?
You demand more that twice a week?

Read more, please.

ok people thank you for all your input. i now have a new perspective.