@dylan22,
Bryan: But they are not the same then.
Cathy: No they aren't.
The "no" confuses me. So I ask myself what Cathy want's to say with her answer:
a) That's wrong. In my opinion they are the same.
b) I agree, They are not the same.
______________________________________________
The answer to your question is that Cathy's answer indicates that she agrees with Bryan.
As far as using the word
so instead of
but, I will try to explain. Using the word
but to begin a sentence in response to another person's statement usually indicates a dissent from the position of the previous speaker. Since Bryan is speaking with Cathy, and Cathy is in agreement with Bryan, the word
but doesn't really work. The word
so is the better choice.
______________________________________________
Bryan: Is that an old photo of your friend?
Cathy: No, I don't think so.
Bryan: Okay, I always need to think about that person on the picture, who I thought was your friend. But they are not the same then.
______________________________________________
Here you offer more context, but you have reversed the order in which the statements are made. Are you aware of that?