My boyfriend broke up with me but still texts

Tell him this in-between stuff is hurting you.

He's got to make a choice. You're back together, or you're not.

He said that he have to break up with you
Then
He said he shouldn't leave you alone now on the new year
You can figure out that he will leave you sooner or later, as he wasn't sure about his feelings toward you. Or he just was in a need for a girlfriend to get over his ex-gf or something like that.
I don't wanna u to get hurt more but I think he would be more serious if he's honest.
Let's not judge him, you guys have a talk. Frankly. No harm feelings. And qsk him in a very clear way what does he feel and what does he want?
Set a line and make a decision. don't go further while you're unsure. You don't need more scar. Good luck

Thank you :-).

Thank you for the advice. I tend to shut down when I'm hurting, I'm thinking he didn't get the reaction he wanted hence the messages. He was trying to get more out of me. I hate the pain.

Breakups can be hard on both sides.

Sometimes relationships continue - that shouldn't - because no one has the nerve to say the relationship isn't working.

Sometimes people try to force relationships when they should really be friends, not romantic partners.

That doesn't mean either of you is wrong - just both having a hard time knowing how to handle the breakup.

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Maybe send a quick note letting him know that you'll be ok, but that it would help if he didn't contact you for a couple of weeks.

Enjoy New Year's with your children/family and then decide what you want to do in 2016.

My thought are this.

Everyone has the right to make a decision of what they want out of life and who to be with.

Breaking up over the phone and not in person, to me shows a coward.

Breaking up just before NYE, is wrong in my opinion, you wait.

3 months is not long, obviously you two haven't been able to have enough time together as perhaps one would want and to me, for a man to fall in love it takes more time, whereby us women, bond immediately pretty much. I would not spend NYE with him if he text messages you as to me that would be that "he" doesn't want to spend it alone.

There are plenty of fish in the sea, find one that would face you, face to face and discuss how to change things for the better instead of "oh this is too hard", lovely lady though. Oh, texting is easier, a call to break up is easier, just sit back and imagine 1 year of you are not worth proper communication.

Have a happy new year, he's out there for you .

ugh i have the same. so annoying