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It sounds to me like he's falling for you. Flirt back with him and find out for sure.

Gee, well, who knows? You can't exactly base much on winking. Hell, lots of people wink and it doesn't necessarily mean anything.

I assume you are flirting back. Does your friend want this guy to be her friend, or to be something more? Even though she currently has a boyfriend, she may be looking to move onto someone else.

In any event, don't get in the middle of this. If your friend wants to mend things with him, she can do it herself. There's no need whatsoever for you to get in the center of that. If you do, I can practically guarantee that things will not end up good for you - either they will mend their relationship and leave you in the cold; or they won't, and will blame you for the continued breakdown; or if he doesn't want to mend things he will resent your interfering; or perhaps you will end up having to be untruthful about your feelings. So, don't do it. Tell your female friend that she needs to rebuild her own bridges.

If you like this guy, and he's not attached, ask him out or at least ask him where you two stand. That way, you'll know. If it works out, great. If it doesn't, then at least you're free to do something else and not worry about this any longer. It's easy --- just ... ask.

my friend and him were best friends,he was interested in her but was to shy to tell her,she at a point had a crush on him.I don't know if she still interested in him even though she has a boyfriend or not because she never is clear about anything,like before she told me she wasn't interested to come to find out she was.sometimes I think she still has feelings for him since she mentioned something about her boyfriend that sounded as if they have problems.

peaches--

Why don't you ask your friend straight out whether or not she's interested in this guy. Tell her, "If you're not, I am."

what does my story sound like ?is he using me or not?

Good Morning Peaches! Your story sounds like so many really caring nice people. You're a dear friend and a faithful one. Try not to worry too much about all the details. An old fashioned song goes: "What will be, will be"...good things happen to people who let go and let good outcomes come to them. (PS: that does'nt apply to your "other " problem...for that see a qualified hair stylist.)
Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Be happy.

Peaches--

"Using" you for what? As a go-between for your girl friend?

Check with your girl friend first--if you feel she has a claim. Or simply ask him what his intentions are.

Good luck.

yes i mean as a go between for my girlfriend ,to make my friend jealous.what do u think?

Peaches--

I'm neither this guy nor an oracle.

Ask him.

At the worst, he'll be totally suprised at the question and get all flustered, run away, drop out of school and enter the ranks of the homeless

At the best he will confess undying love, invite you elope immediately, and give you a diamond ring that will make Brittany Spears green with envy.

Probably something in between will happen--but I don't know what. Neither does anyone else.