PORN ADDICT???

Two questions.

1) If you are having sex every night, then how is his use of porn hurting you in any way? It doesn't seem like it should be a problem for you. Why does what he watches in his own time bother you?

2) If it does bother you, and you really can't accept this, then why haven't you dumped him already?

It doesn't really matter whether it is normal or not. You can look on the Kinsey webpage to see what the average man says about how much he uses porn. But who cares, what matters in your relationship is you and him.

Whether you think this is a problem or not is going to change anything. This will only change if you boyfriend thinks it is a problem... and porn is much less harmful of a habit then smoking. Maybe he doesn't feel the need to change. In this case there is no way to force him to change, this isn't your place.

It is always good to talk to your partner about how you feel... of course listening is an important part of communication too. If you can't accept how your boyfriend is, then you should end the relationship. You can't force someone to change. You either accept them or you leave them. That's how it works.

well.. for a guy anything can be normal. However, doctors recommend 4 times a week. I think he didn't ask you to do some weird **** with you. If you were asked, then you have a porn addict.

Not enough info.

1) your ages roughly

2) what does he watch, what kinds of acts?

3) how much spontaneity, variety and kink do you have in your sex life?

4) how long have you been together?

If he is watching this much porn at 30, is watching wild stuff, but is not wild in bed (which would be my first guess upon the little you have said) then the problem is likely not that he likes porn, but that he is a frustrated sexual adventurer. In that case I would recommend trying to get him to open up about his fantasies and the best sex that he has had so far. If being with you means being frustrated then your relationship has big problems. Sexual incompatibility is a great killer of relationships. Just because he is getting sex everyday does not mean that he is getting what he needs.

I feel that a person watches porn for one of two reasons. One reason is he is simply horny. The second reason is that watching porn serves as an outlet for his sexual fantasies. Who is to say what is too much porn. Three times per day every single day does sound excessive if that is happening every single day. Three times per day occasionally may not be as big of an issue. There are too many variables. What is his age? How much free time to his self does he have? Does he watch porn 3 times per day every day or 3 times per day occasionally? How strong is his sexual drive? Are you fulfilling his sexual desires? His desire to watch porn just might be a healthy thing for your sexual relationship you have with him. Then again, it may turn out to be unhealthy and destructive for your sexual relationship with him. Tell him how you feel, if you are uncomfortable with him watching that much porn. Ask him if you can sometimes watch porn together, just as long as you are both okay with viewing porn together.