@GodWolf-ON,
hey
do not try #1 - it is a bad bad bad idea
that kind of **** always ends up getting back to the person you're interested in and invariably pisses them off
#2 is a good option
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how do you propose to be someone's boyfriend before you start dating them?
stick with #2
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don't bug her with this stuff during her party. she'll be distracted with other stuff going on and not be able to focus on what you're saying/trying to say