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Marriage proposal decision

 
 
Reply Mon 28 Sep, 2015 01:19 am
I have been talking to a girl over phone(mostly chat) for past two years. She was my team mate who left company 2 years back and joined government sector. I liked her as she is dedicated and honest in her speech.
She talks very less by her own. We rarely meet as well.

One day she told she like me and asked about my view.
I gave her my opinion that I too like her after one month. She then asked me(after merely 1 month) whether she will tell same to her parents. I said No as I we never talked about it and how come this will be taken to parents.
She is a very reserved girl and rarely speak out of emotions. As their parents are seeing for the alliance she was worried and asked me to take decision quickly.

My view was without even talking about long term relationship how come we can take a decision about telling to parents.

Anyone Kindly advise on this.
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roger
 
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Reply Mon 28 Sep, 2015 02:00 am
@Bhanu- Unahb,
If you are considering a long term relationship, I think you should change your answer to her real quick. Unless marriage is completely out of the question for you. She may be getting too serious, too soon to suit you, but as we sometimes say in the US, fish or cut bait.
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Reply Mon 28 Sep, 2015 05:40 am
How old are you two?

It sounds like she may be under pressure to find a husband. Her parents may want her to declare a possible candidate for marriage. She may be under some cultural/religious/parental pressures to marry.

Ask her WHY you must tell her parents what your intentions are so soon after getting to know her.
Bhanu- Unahb
 
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Reply Mon 28 Sep, 2015 02:44 pm
@PUNKEY,
Thanks for reply.

Yes she is in parental pressure. She is 24 and I am 1 year elder to her.
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Bhanu- Unahb
 
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Reply Mon 28 Sep, 2015 02:47 pm
@roger,
Thanks for reply.

Marriage is not out of picture.Bur without never discussing about it how can i make decisions.
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