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Sat 26 Sep, 2015 09:34 am
My wife of 11 years we have 3 kids she's not one time asked me for sex if I don't ask it don't happen , I found nude pics of herself she sent to another guy whom she had been sleeping with for over a year , for kids sake we worked it out , but still won't ask me or send me pics when I ask , we recently had a 3 some with another girl and my wife went nuts on this girl and forgot I was there never has ever came on to me like she did her , and talking with others that knew of her and this other guy , my wife was all over him .. is it time to give her up , if so I have a home and 3 kids involved in a lot of activities that I'll be missing out on ... feel stuck between a rock and a hard spot , I've explained to her I have thoughts of leaving because of this and still nothing changes... what do i do
@neverthesamemike,
have you considered telling her to leave?
you stay with home and children
@ehBeth,
In Florida woman get the house and kids unless proven unfit , drugs etc..
@ehBeth,
I've asked her to leave , she won't leave and she knows she has me by the balls cause if I leave I would pay over $300 week in child support
@neverthesamemike,
Have you had a consult with a lawyer on this matter?
It's the first thing I'd do.
@ehBeth,
Yes that what he told me if I can't prove her unfit she's gonna get the home and kids
@neverthesamemike,
It's so Damn aggregating cause there's so much on the line , don't wanna break a home with 3 kids in school in activities such as cheerleading softball football , so much to miss out on
@neverthesamemike,
I definitely wouldn't recommend you leave the house or children.
Can you meet with a mediator to work out a way for you both to remain in the house, living separately and without you supporting her? does your employer have a plan that covers services like that?
@ehBeth,
I work in a small town shop building diesel engines that only employees 5 people they don't or can't really help ,