What flowers should I shoose in my wedding?

Always, for anything with a wedding, buy what you like and can afford. If you need to choose where your money goes, put it into photography and the rings (and wedding rings are cheap), as those are the only things that last after the big day.

I agree - the flowers die - to save cost on flowers, pick a flower you like that is in season, local and more plentiful. There should be enough that you can find one that you like.

One way I saved on table arrangements was instead of getting full table arrangements, the facility provided hurricaine candles and I had the florists make floral rings to go around them. Sinple and elegant (and much cheaper). That is another thing - thing simple elegance. It tends to cost less and to me looks better than big overpowering arrangements.

Ask Shoose Utaite, only he knows the answer....

since I'd get my own flowers from my garden, I'm not going to consider your wedding flowers as part of my budget

really

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