I was doing my undergrad when I lost my virginity to a guy who was doing his masters degree. He broke up with me soon after breaking my virginity. He's excuse was that 'I was too good for him' and told me about the many affairs he was having including one with someone that I knew. He told me on more than one occasion that I should finish my degree first.
I failed so I couldn't finish my degree. We've had little communication over the years(3 years) and recently he moved close to where I live.
Early this year he contacted me, the message he sent said 'I know I'm probably the last person you want to see but I was hoping we could meet.'
When we finally met he said that he thought I hated him because of what happened and thought he had caused me to fail. I told him that he wasn't the cause I had my own issues then. He said if I ever needed anything I should tell him.
Every time when I ask for something he always comes through (because of my current situation I've been asking for a lot
). But he hardly ever initiates contact. If I'm around where he lives or his work I tell him and I see him. When he sees a job post or bursary he sends it to me (that's the only time he initiates contact)
Now I want to know why is he helping me. Is it because he feels guilty of what he did to me, he feels sorry for me or he just genuinely cares? I don't want to ask him. Please help.
Thanking you in advance.
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