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Sun 9 Aug, 2015 03:19 am
Everything seems to be going great between us. He seems very serious about me and the relationship but these are some random issues I have, which I have not addressed yet to him. We've been dating for a little over 2 months now.
-He's 10 years older than me.
-He's told me he's apparently not married, nor have had children before. I do not know why, but when he told me this after he asked if we could date exclusively, I got the vibe he was lying.
-Apparently lives with a sibling. Haven't met a friend/family member yet.
-When we spoke about our views on sex, he at one point said that he dislikes to have sex with a woman he's not emotionally/attracted to, because it's such a drain on him. This sort of reminded me of a marriage relationship, where at times one after a while doesn't feel attracted to the other(maybe).
-We haven't slept together yet. When he asked me when I would feel comfortable doing so, I told that I wouldn't want to interfere and come to his house, with his sister there. So he suggested a nice hotel.
-At first, he would take me to places that were at least 20 minutes drive away, and takes me to the movies a lot. I sort of questioned this, but he would say that he loves the place. Lately he's been taking me to places that are closer, and much busier.
-When we're out and having dinner, he will usually look around the room a lot(not sure if this is a sign of a controlling man or..)
@veronicalawrence,
Quote:-He's told me he's apparently not married
If those were his words, it does sound like a clue, doesn't it? Actually, just from your asking the question, I suspect you already know the answer.
@veronicalawrence,
He is so broke he needs to live with his sister but will pay for a nice hotel every time he fucks his girl? Call me skeptical. If he lives with sister out of choice and not need then I would have a whole nother set of problems with him.
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