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Should I cut it off with her?

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casualdude10
 
Reply Mon 27 Jul, 2015 04:08 pm
Short story, we met on the fourth of July. We've hung out 10+ times since, once just me and her. Farthest we've gone is making out and sleeping in the same bed. Last night we talked and she said this (highlights in the bullet points in the order of how she told me things below):

- She likes me
- She broke up with her boyfriend in January and officially stopped all communications with him 3 weeks ago
- Established that she doesn't want a relationship right now
- She likes me
- First guy shes ever been on a date with (besides ex)
- Said she is going to talk/do what she wants because shes single (expected)
- I can talk to anyone that I want
- But again she likes me

So I'm stuck.. I am actually trying to start a relationship with her eventually, but she doesn't want one. But she kept telling me how much she liked me and how awesome I am.

Would you continue talking to this girl in hopes for a relationship or should I just treat it like a friend zone situation and move on?

Thanks!
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vikorr
 
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Reply Mon 27 Jul, 2015 08:55 pm
@casualdude10,
What we would do in this situation is irrelevant, because every person differs on this somewhat (different emotions, different needs, different levels of self esteem, different ways of handling things etc) . What is relevant is:
- what you need
- what you want
- what your principles / values are
- what your emotions are
Vs
- What she wants
- what her emotions are

(her principles / values / needs are left out, because it's very unlikely you can determine those in a short period of time, if at all)

The only person who can truly determine your needs / wants / emotions / principles / values...is you. Consider them, and make an informed choice.

The only other thing I would offer is - be true to your personal values. Breaking your personal values only ever leads to confused emotions, and loss of self esteem.
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glitterbag
 
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Reply Mon 27 Jul, 2015 09:21 pm
@casualdude10,
What are your ages?? I might have a few ideas depending on your age.
PUNKEY
 
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Reply Tue 28 Jul, 2015 07:52 am
Give her time. She's circling the wagons.
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farmerman
 
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Reply Tue 28 Jul, 2015 08:28 am
@casualdude10,
DO NOT
CUT IT
OFF
. You may need it later
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casualdude10
 
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Reply Tue 28 Jul, 2015 03:13 pm
@glitterbag,
both of us are 20
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