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Dating and finding pictures

 
 
798069
 
Reply Thu 2 Jul, 2015 04:00 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together since August 2014. Today (July 2015) I found saved nudity pictures from "a friend" that was taken, sent and received November 2014.

Should I confront him?
Should I leave it in the past?

There hasn't been any more or other pictures (that I'm aware of) since. But him and her are still friends and communicate/hang out, etc.
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Ragman
 
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Reply Thu 2 Jul, 2015 04:08 pm
@798069,
well, I'd discuss it with him...but how are you going to tell him that you saw these pics without telling him how you had snooped on him?

Here's another thought. if he received them way back then, why does he still have them on his phone or wherever?


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DaveTest678
 
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Reply Fri 3 Jul, 2015 04:09 pm
@798069,
hmmm... it's a little suspicious to me. I would understand if someone keeps pictures of their exes (non-nude of course), but there could be several reasons why he has that particular picture. They might even be a back up for black mail. Maybe she was more than "a friend" at on time. I'm not sure... You might be able to ask him under the bush and try to get around to it.
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FOUND SOUL
 
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Reply Fri 3 Jul, 2015 04:18 pm
@798069,
3 months is not a long time, into a relationship. The fact that it seems to have been an isolated case, my thoughts are she was "trying" to still "keep" him but he chose to stay with you.

The problem is "how" did you find those nude pictures? If you ask him politely to delete them given he is now in a relationship with you, you will from the look of it confirm that you were snooping.

That shows no trust and without trust there is going to be major issues within your relationship.

On a side note, I accidentally typed "thrust" instead of trust, lucky there is an edit button.
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